Psychology tells us there are a few tricks and tips to keep in mind if we want to make people like us. Especially if we want to draw the attention of someone in particular. It’s not rocket science and it definitely doesn’t require a specific set of skills.
Once you become aware of your body language and the signals it gives others, you will see how easy it is to make those around you like you. Research suggests body language is very important and can reveal tons about our personality, even about our subconscious.
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But the secret to making people like you comes from a combination of body language and attitude.
The best outcome is always at the mingling of the two. Keep in mind that if you want to project confidence you must feel secure and great in your own skin.
For this, it would be helpful if you removed anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. And if there’s a tiny thing that bothers you about yourself but can’t change it, embrace it. Make peace with it.
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Relaxation and being comfortable are also crucial.
Try to stand up straight, but comfortable at the same time. People will notice if you’re rigid or inflexible. Remember to always relax your shoulders and neck. If you look relaxed, others will feel just as relaxed around you.
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Treat people as if they already like you and in a friendly manner.
Being kind to someone and showing them respect will help you a lot in your relationships. Having a friendly attitude towards those around you no matter who they are will determine them to respond likewise.
Your friends will definitely want to hear about this so make sure you pass it along!
