Just when you’re finally ready to move on from a devastating breakup, he decides to come back in your life. Raise your hand if this has ever happened to you. We thought so.
Why does this happen? They may have come at the conclusion that you really were the best thing in their lives. But here are other reasons why guys crawl back to you after they’ve broken up with you:
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1. He has changed
Some actually change and are ready to commit themselves and take responsibility for the mistakes they’ve made in the relationship. Once he’s faced the reality of living without you, they realize they must change in order to have you back.
2. He hasn’t found the thing he was looking for
A few more failed relationships or flings and he realizes that none of them can take your place, simply because they’re not you. In other words, he now knows that the grass isn’t greener on the other side.
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3. He has standards now
Chances are you’ve raised the bar pretty high for them. Once they’ve had a few other girlfriends, they realize they didn’t have what they lost in you. It’s only natural that they will compare other women with their ex (you).
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4. He doesn’t want to start over with someone else
The thought of starting over new with someone else scares them. Because they don’t know what to expect exactly, they would rather go back to what they know.
There you have it! It’s up to you to take him back or not! Please share this!
