Maybe we’ve had enough of being single and we think the best next step for us is to enter a relationship. But although some of us maybe want it and crave for it, this doesn’t mean we are also ready to commit.
Yearning to be with someone just for the sake of not going alone through life is not enough to choose a life partner. The truth is that someone will come along when we are prepared, or, even better, when we least expect it. Whatever the case, we need to be in the right place in order for the relationship to grow.
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Here are 3 signs that you’re not ready just yet:
1. You are unhappy with your life
If you find yourself feeling miserable thinking that being in a relationship will make it all go away, then you should definitely not enter one. Some of us want to fill that void somehow but waiting for somebody else to do that is plain wrong. We’re the only ones who can make peace with ourselves.
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2. You aren’t over your ex
If you haven’t let go of your past, then most likely, you will have difficulties if you go run into someone else’s arms. Chances are you’ll just do it to get over your loss and that’s not a way to start a relationship.
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3. You keep finding yourself in the same situations in your relationships
This is a sign that some things need to worked on internally. If you stumble upon the same issues in your relationships, then you have to look inside to see what you can improve.
You will know when you’re ready!
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