Understanding women is a superpower most men don’t have and don’t give two hoots about. The ladies, in contrast, would do anything to have a peek inside a man’s brain. There are only three things all men need in order to be happy in a relationship.
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Why do men need to be praised every time they do something for you?
Even if you’ve cleaned the entire house and the only thing he did was to take out the garbage, it is he who will collect the compliments. You won’t get any recognition but applauding him might get him to do more tasks.
When it comes to relationships, one of the things women miss is to listen to their partners. Listening from the heart is said to be the man’s business. But nothing could be further than the truth. Listen to what men are saying as well as what they are not.
Women have the bad reputation of blowing things out of proportion.
For example, most men tell you from the get-go if they are truly interested or not in having a relationship with you. But it’s the female brain that alters this information into thinking something different. “Once he gets to know me, things will change…”. This is how things get complicated.
Another thing you should accept is that a man will choose to inform you about being exclusive. Until then, he might date other women and that’s ok, as long as you are prepared for that. When he will decide he wants to make a commitment, you will be the first to know.
It’s not easy getting a man to commit. To secure a good connection and to build a relationship with a man, you should try meeting three needs:
1. Appreciation
2. Acknowledgment
3. Affection
The first two are related to their constant desire of being praised and the last one is about love. But that doesn’t always mean sex. It could also be a kiss on the forehead, a hug, or a cute little sign of affection.
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