There are no perfect couples, only people who strive for perfection. A solid relationship is build with time and effort, like anything else worth pursuing. Maybe we dream of that special relationship where everything comes into place naturally. But part of growing up is the realization that love is an art and we should always perfect our skills.
If you want to make your couple the example to which others aspire, try these useful and certified tips.
1. Give little bites of joy
It’s all about the small things. When we call our partner just to ask them how their day is going or when we buy their favorite cupcake from the local store for no special occasion. These tiny gestures will make their day shine, and happier days build up a strong and content relationship. Your significant other should feel each day that you are not taking him for granted.
2. Turn off your cell
According to a study published in an academic journal called Computers in Human Behavior, people who use social media a lot are not happy with their relationships. It does not really matter if being hooked on your phone is a cause or an effect of a bad relationship. What matter is that once you move away from your phone and towards your loved one, everything can change for the better.
3. Keep things fresh
Your long-term relationship needs new and interesting things in order to stand the test of time. Doing cool and fresh things as a couple is essential for an interesting relationship rather than one driven by monotony.
4. Have sex in different places
Monotony can sneak into your sexual life as well. A change of location from time to time is an easy move and could work wonders for your relationship.
5. Go on holiday
Studies show that planning a vacation together can have a positive impact on your relationship. That does not mean you should try and fix a flawed relationship with a holiday. But it will make a stable relationship feel a bit more exciting.
If we spend time and energy trying to become better persons, why wouldn’t do the same for our relationship? There’s no shame in admitting that sometimes we need guidance.
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