Trying to initiate contact with your ex long after your breakup can feel like the hardest thing you’ll ever do. It feels like you’re suffocating at the thought of reestablishing a connection with them, no matter how small that is. When you’re the only one in this situation, it can feel even more overwhelming.
But is it possible at all to try and regain your lost love? The answer is an absolute yes. Of course, this does not depend upon you entirely. They say it takes two to tango so look out for any signs that you’re both in the same boat.
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If you think there are chances for you to get back together, however slim they may be, then keep in mind these 3 key factors in trying to rekindle the old flame:
1. Love
If you two are still in love with each other, then most of the work is done here. Of course there’s a chance the other cares for you a lot, but simply can’t get involved again. They may love you, but not be in love with you or with the idea of being in a relationship with you again.
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2. Communication
No matter how many feelings you still have for each other, if there’s no communication at all, there’s nothing. Love is not enough to bring the two of you together.
Change the dynamics of the relationship with open and sincere communication. Skip the manipulative or aggressive tactics and you’ll see how much you have to gain from a genuine talk.
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3. Change
Change doesn’t come over night. Change is a process and isn’t a one-way street. If you place the good of the relationship and the collective interest above your own, then there’s hope. Think of becoming a better individual, alongside your partner, and take action towards it.
So, yes, you can get back with your ex if you work on these 3 things together. Not all is lost. Please share this!
