Adulthood doesn’t just come with the age. We cannot rely on the passing years to makes us proper adults. Adulthood is a practice. Here are 5 things that makes you a real adult.
1. Take responsibility for your actions
Complaining and blaming others for our misfortunes is inevitable to a certain point. But if you make a habit out of it, what you’re really saying is that you are not in charge of your life. By taking into account the future consequences of your actions, you can own them later on.
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2. Cultivate your relationships
We all need love and affection in our lives. But if you expect them to just happen, without making an effort, you will probably be disappointed. The best way to make sure your relationships are going to flourish is to communicate with the people around you. Clearly express your emotions, your thoughts and fears! There’s no better way.
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3. Tell the truth
Telling the truth is not always easy, but it’s a must of adult life. If for no other reason, consider the time and energy wasted in your attempts to cover up your tracks. Sincerity is the building block of trust and no relationship can survive without it.
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4. Keep your ego in check
Nobody likes a narcissist. And if trying to always be the center of attention, being selfish and emotionally manipulating others could be tolerated when you were a child, as an adult it’s unbecoming, to say the least. In the end, this type of behavior will ruin your relationships.
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5. Express your gratitude
As children, we believe we deserve everything. Being an adult means knowing that every gift we receive, every kind word and any kind of help we get must be cherished. By expressing your gratitude, you make the other feel appreciated, but also your emotional state will be elevated.
And don’t forget to be gentle to yourself! Please, share this!
