Being in a new relationship can be very exciting for us but also really terrifying. Sometimes we’re so afraid of making one bad move that we forget to enjoy getting to know that person.
If you’ve found someone you like a lot and are both looking to commit, here are some tips for how to make it into a happy, healthy and long-lasting relationship.
1. Choose wisely
If you notice some red flags, then maybe the best thing you can do is to not get involved. Choosing wisely means going for someone who wants the same things as you from a relationship.
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2. Don’t seek out reassurance
Women tend to do this a lot in the beginning of a new relationship, but some men too. It’s important to be more relaxed about it because otherwise you’ll scare them off.
3. Don’t try to win him over
If you have to win him over with some very convoluted games, then there’s no point in starting something serious.
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4. Don’t give up your hobbies and passions
Some of us also tend to do this. We tend to get really caught up in the fires of a new bond with someone that we forget about ourselves. But this shouldn’t happen. Stay focused on your goals and dreams.
5. Don’t forget about your friends
Ah, love is addictive and all we want to do is spend our time with our new partner. But forgetting you also have friends who are counting on you is a bit selfish.
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6. Most importantly, don’t forget to enjoy it!
Be positive that things will turn out great for you. And seize the moment, beginnings are the best!
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