Introverts are not hard to love, but they need to be loved in a particular way. Their delicate emotional nature requires their partners to be extra careful in some aspects. Here is some advice about how to love an introvert.
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1. They need time alone and you shouldn’t take it personally
It’s essential to give an introvert space and you shouldn’t think that because they need it, they are mad at you or that there’s something wrong with your relationship. They need time to recharge their batteries and they will come back to you with a renewed affection.
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2. There’s no point in trying to have small talk with them
They don’t enjoy small talk, because they don’t see the point in it. They do enjoy deeper conversations and they will surprise with what good listeners they are.
3. They find meaning in being silent
Again, the fact that they are silent doesn’t have anything to do with you. In fact, sometimes being silent together is a sign of intimacy.
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4. They don’t get close to someone easily
They choose their friends and partners with care and even then, they might not be that affectionate at first. But if you have patience, they will reveal themselves to be very loyal and sweet-natured.
5. They need low key nights at home
Maybe you prefer going out every night and to be surrounded by people all the time. But for them, the perfect evening is one spent at home, watching a movie, curled up on the couch, next to you.
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6. They need to know you appreciate their pensive nature
An introvert won’t hurry to utter their opinion. They need to consider an issue from all angles before expressing themselves. If you won’t get your answers from them as fast as you may want, be patient and you’ll get insightful ideas and observations.
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