Many people are getting married or entering relationships. Some of these people are even happy with their partner. Others strive endlessly to maintain a relationship or to find someone they get along with.
All relationships require time and effort to become better, healthier, and stable. But true love is about healthy emotions and having that someone there that will always support you. Real love will bring meaning and purpose to your life and will magnify everything, while dysfunctional love will keep you down.
Here are the 6 things you need to accept to find true love:
1. True love is healthy communication.
Communicating our feelings is the bedrock of any healthy relationship. No matter how much love there is, if communication is flawed, chances are the couple will not make it. Always express your feelings and dissatisfaction with honesty.
2. To find the right person, you have to be the right person.
Before getting into a new relationship, realize what went wrong in your previous ones. Take time to adjust some things about you if you think it’s necessary. Build your life and be content with yourself before anything else.
3. You are not a victim.
You have control over your life and the people you come into contact with. Sometimes we lie ourselves about needing sympathy or pity from others, but this is a very unhealthy attitude.
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4. Live with purpose.
Living a full and meaningful life will make everything align in your path, including love. When you are walking the right road and feeling happy with your choices, you are more likely to find true love.
5. True love is not supposed to hurt.
Real love is not supposed to be about constant quarreling and struggles. Of course, there will be times of disappointment or hurt, but the important thing is to overcome these issues together.
6. True love accepts you for who you are.
That is a golden rule. Whoever loves you, they will love you and want you for who you are. If you need to change for your partner to stick around, then something’s wrong with the picture.
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