Most of the times, we can feel the love and care of our partners. We see it in how they look at us, in everyday details, in the way they talk to you. Sometimes, maybe when habit comes into play, we forget to analyze our own feelings and the feelings the other has for us.
Maybe we start taking them for granted. Or maybe we’re just left with the impression they no longer love us as they used to. There’s only one way to find out.
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It’s not a scientific method so you can try this at home. If he does these 3 basic things, then he’s definitely still in love with you.
1. He puts your happiness and well-being above his
Or at least, they consider yours just as important as theirs. Because you’re in the relationship for so long, you’ve now become one.
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This is the most selfless kind of love, the one that strives to put the other’s feelings above their own. It’s not easy to achieve, but it’s the deepest human connection there is.
He will do everything in his power to make you happy, to fix things when they go wrong, to listen to you whenever he gets the chance.
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2. He makes you a priority in his life
I’m sure you’re doing everything you can to support him and his dreams. But if you feel neglected, chances are something is up.
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When he really loves you, he will make time for your relationship. He will commit no matter how busy he is at work or how passionate about his goals.
3. He never gives up on you
When he puts everything he is and has into the relationship so that it works, you know you’ve found someone special. A sign of real love is when he’s truly committed and won’t give up without a fight.
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He must be willing to try and save your relationship when the going gets tough.
So is your love real? Send us your thoughts!
