10 Signs They’re Not The One

You’re in search of that perfect companion, somebody who can be by your side for the rest of your life, showing you genuine love and dainty consideration. That one person who understands your true nature, who knows your moods and has the ability to cheer you up every time you are in low spirits.

But is your actual partner the soul mate you have been seeking for all your lifetime? Here are 10 signs that prove you haven’t found true love yet.

MORE: The Only 3 Things Your Man Wants From You

1. They can’t read you

No one is able to read minds for real, but those instants when they do or say exactly what you were thinking in that precise moment, those are signs of authentic love and a strong relationship. That’s proof of a connection that will last for sure.

MORE: 10 Signs You Have Perfect Chemistry

2. There’s no chemistry

We can’t deny the need for psychical chemistry. If there is none, the relationship is doomed to end sooner or later. We know that those reactions in the brain last for the first two or three years of the relationship, so zero chemistry means a future lifeless relationship.

MORE: The 4 Compliments Every Woman Really Wants To Hear From A Guy

3. Zero compliments

If they never compliment you, there’s clearly something going downhill. We all need to hear, at least from time to time, how great we look in that new dress or how tasty our meal is. Compliments are reminders that we are significant people in their lives.

MORE: 10 Thoughts A Man Has When He Finds The Right Woman

4. They sometimes neglect you

Do you feel like you’re not the sole priority in the relationship? Do they text you in the morning to check up how your day is going? Or do they run to the pharmacy when you fall ill? This would be testimony you are the most important person in their lives and the single priority whatsoever.

5. They are being judgmental

Receiving criticism from your loved one on a constant basis slowly damages the relationship until there will remain only anger and frustration. A stable and loving relationship is built on understanding, hearing, seeing and accepting someone for who they are.

6. You overthink things

Soulmates don’t spend a lot of time writing and then deleting text messages, they just hit send and if their message is not clearly understood, they explain themselves in person. When you think a lot about what to write them, that’s a clear sign you can’t be your genuine self.

MORE: If You Want To Keep Him, Don’t Tell Him These 3 Things

7. They don’t put in the work

It’s no secret, relationships are a lot of work. If they don’t make the effort to spend time with your family and friends, if they miss a lot of important events in your life or they do come but they clearly don’t enjoy themselves, they are most definitely not your soulmate. True companions desire to spend quality time with you and get involved in the lives of the people you cherish the most.

8. The future is elusive

MORE: 5 Things A Man Would Never Confess To A Woman

Having no interest for the future of the relationship is a big red flag. It makes no sense to be in a committed relationship if there is no long-term future for you together. Not marriage or children, but at least having the same goals in life is decisive for a relationship to work.

9. You make excuses for them

When you have to explain their actions, why they treated you like that or why they haven’t come to your mom’s birthday party, that’s not really a good scenario for a healthy relationship. You shouldn’t report their behavior.

MORE: Never Let Her Go If She Has These 3 Qualities

10. They don’t seem happy to see you

No matter how hard their day was, they should put a smile on your face. They must enjoy your company at all times, they should always be happy when they see you and bring you joy even when things are difficult.

If you’re not the one for them, don’t waste any more time and energy. Better off completely alone than feeling lonely in a relationship. Pass this on!