When you go through such a devastating event as a breakup, you’re thinking: now what? Where will life take me? What’s going to happen to me and how am I going to survive without the love of my life?
I promise you you will, somehow. It’s not going to be easy, but baby steps will take you pretty far. What you must work on right now is finding an equilibrium and some peace of mind. One of the major secrets of reclaiming your power and shifting the focus on you is the no contact rule.
But here are other ways you can overcome the hardest part:
1. Don’t try to remain friends with them
If the two of you were really in love with each other, then staying friends won’t work. And there’s no point in pretending, right?
2. Don’t do anything
Don’t call. Don’t text. Don’t drunk call or text. Do not initiate contact. This will only make it harder for you. Don’t send them gifts and don’t make up excuses to get in touch with them again. Don’t. And don’t ask to meet.
3. Find support in your friends
Being around your closest friends will be crucial during this time. You’ll have such a wonderful time with them that you’ll hurt a bit less. Be grateful that you have them around.
4. Do something creative
I personally drowned my sorrow in painting and music. And it’s working wonderfully! Sing, write or dance all of your negative emotions out. You’ll feel so relieved afterwards. Be vulnerable and pour your heart into your art.
5. Know your worth
Although it may seem hard at first, soon you’ll be able to hold your head up high. You will realize that if he chose to walk away, he didn’t deserve you after all. You will stop blaming yourself and realize you are worthy of love and of someone who won’t give up on you.
You have more strength in you than you know! Please share this!