To love an independent woman is both a treat and a challenge. Since she doesn’t need to be with someone, but wants to be in relationship, her way of life and personality can seem disruptive.
She might be comfortable in her own skin and she might not need somebody else to feel complete, but that doesn’t mean that she is not committed to the relationship.
Let her be who she is
One important move that you can do is not to try to change her. She has built a life of her own that works for her. Don’t trample on that! Just encourage her to keep growing. In doing so, you might find inspiration for your own development.
Get to know her
Showing interest in what she does, what she feels and thinks, in who she really is will make all the difference in the world for her and your relationship.
One of the main reason she chooses to be in a relationship with you is that through you she might discover a new universe. Show her who you are, share your hopes and dreams. Be brave enough to show her your vulnerable side. She will love you for it.
Do not misunderstand her
She is used to her little routines and to her way of being. Spending an evening alone or going to the beach with a book is not a sign of disinterest, but just a way to recharge her batteries. After being on her own for a while, she will come back wanting you even more.
Choosing you as a partner is a sign of how much she appreciates you and that she has great hopes for the future. But changing her life style in such a way as to accommodate you is a big and difficult change. Be patient and make sure she knows that you appreciate her independent side.
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