We are wired in such a way as to avoid pain. On the other hand, we all went through hardships that made us better persons. But what about suffering when it comes to matters of the heart? Can we hope that something good can come out of it as well?
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If a relationship fails, maybe it’s time for you to shift your perspective and challenge yourself. Maybe you need to spend some time alone to figure out what went wrong. And most importantly, you may find out what you can learn from the experience.
Once you grow out of the mindset that is all about blaming and anger and grief, you can look at things more objectively. You realize that if something so amazing ended in your life, maybe it wasn’t meant to last in the first place.
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Learn to appreciate how wonderful it was while it lasted and accept that nothing lasts forever.
When you start seeing things in a more positive light, you will begin to understand that sometimes heartache helps us and it happens for a reason.
You realize you are much stronger than you thought you were.
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You finally see that at the end of that big bad tunnel there are opportunities for personal growth.
You have a chance to set new goals and work on improving yourself professionally and personally.
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You know exactly what you’re looking for in a relationship, but also what you’re not.
This is very important because being heartbroken will set the path for new and more fulfilling relationships in the future.
And above all else, you become wiser.
So next time when you will face hardship, you will be calmer and more prepared to handle whatever life throws at you.
Don’t worry if your heart aches right now! Tomorrow is another day! Please, share this!
