True love is a mixture of care and desire. It’s wanting to know every secret the other has not dared to share with anybody else. True love is being kind for real. But true love requires for you to be ready in order to be able to recognize it when you find it. Here are 6 things you need to accept to find true love:
1. True love is healthy communication.
Communicating our feelings is the bedrock of any healthy relationship. No matter how much love there is, if communication is flawed, chances are the couple will not make it. Always express your feelings and dissatisfaction with honesty!
2. To find the right person, you have to be the right person.
Before getting into a new relationship, realize what went wrong in your previous ones. Take time to adjust some things about you if you think it’s necessary. Build your life and be content with yourself before anything else.
3. You are not a victim.
You have control over your life and the people with whom you come in contact. Sometimes we lie to ourselves about needing sympathy or pity from others, but this is a very unhealthy attitude.
4. Live with purpose.
Living a full and meaningful life will make everything align in your path, including love. When you are walking the right road and feeling happy with your choices, you are more likely to find true love.
5. True love is not supposed to hurt.
Real love is not supposed to be about constant quarreling and struggles. Of course, there will be times of disappointment or hurt, but the important thing is to overcome these issues together.
6. True love is being accepted for who you are.
That is a golden rule. Whoever loves you, they will love you and want you for who you truly are. If you need to change for your partner to stick around, then something’s wrong with the picture.
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